
Collaborative Divorce
Disputes between you and your spouse during the divorce litigation process can wear on both your emotions and your finances.
Fortunately, there are ways to minimize the negative impact a divorce has on your life. Our Arlington, TX, firm can help.
Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division has helped many clients overcome conflict and reach an agreement through collaborative divorce.
Why Trust Harris Cook Law?
David Cook, John Clark, and our team have helped many clients through difficult matters relating to various aspects of family law. We have been in practice for decades. Regardless of whether you decide on a collaborative divorce process, mediation, or traditional methods, she can make sure your case is completely resolved and will gladly act as your counsel. Our divorce lawyer offices are conveniently located in Arlington and Southlake, TX.
If you live in the Arlington, Southlake, or Mansfield, TX, area, you can request a consultation at our law firm by completing our online form, or by calling:
(817) 572-9900
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“We contacted Harris Cook requesting counseling in regards to a child custody case. David was very compassionate with our current situation but was also very proactive in looking ahead and advising us in a direction that would be best for our family. David was so confident and professional through all of the ups & downs. We knew we were in great hands and we feel so blessed to have achieved the outcome that David and his staff worked so hard for.”
– Michelle, 5-Star Review
What Is Collaborative Law in Texas And How Does It Work?
Collaborative law is a concept that allows litigants in Texas to work together to resolve the issues in their case. In a collaborative divorce, each party is represented by an attorney who provides legal advice and assists with negotiation. Discussions are held in "four-way" meetings to work out the terms and reach an agreeable solution.
Since the collaborative process does not usually take as long as going to court for traditional litigation, you can save a substantial amount of money in a divorce. When it is complete, each party agrees to settlement terms and can start to move on with life without undue stress and hostility.
Mediation
Mediation is a slightly different legal process with the same goal as collaborative law: to settle a divorce as painlessly as possible outside of the courtroom.
In these situations, both parties work together with a mediator to negotiate the terms rather than their respective personal attorneys. The mediator acts as a peacemaker and negotiator, helping to resolve disagreements and find solutions that work for everyone involved. While there is no requirement that mediators have a law degree, our Arlington firm offers services for divorce mediation and can provide knowledgeable counsel to ease the process.
Collaborative Law is Complicated
It is important to hire a lawyer who not only understands the collaborative law divorce process but will work hard to protect your best interests. Arlington-based collaborative attorneys David Cook and John Clark can help you make sound decisions regarding any legal issues that may arise during divorce mediation or negotiations.
Take the First Step Today
At Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division, our compassionate and knowledgeable lawyers can explain the details of how collaborative divorce works during your initial consultation. David Cook, John Clark, and our team of attorneys have been practicing law for decades and have helped many families through disputes and other difficult times. Our divorce lawyers can review your case, and advise you as to whether a collaborative process is a viable option.
Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division helps clients throughout Southlake, Mansfield, and Arlington, TX, achieve outcomes that benefit all parties involved in a case. Send us a message if you want to learn more, or you can speak to an attorney at our family law firm by calling:
(817) 572-9900

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Mediation VS. Collaboration
There is no one correct way to go about getting a divorce. However, a certain method may work better for you and your spouse. Mediation is typically the more flexible and cost-effective of the two options, however, it can be hard for some couples to work through negotiations without respective attorneys. Even in amicable cases, it is beneficial to be represented by a divorce lawyer to protect your best interests.
Which Method is Right For Me?
Divorce Litigation | Divorce Mediation | Collaborative Law | |
Location | Publicly held in a courtroom | Confidential discussions in an informal setting | Negotiations are held in private, typically in a law office or neutral location |
Timeline | Cases can take over a year to complete | Most cases are resolved within two to three months but could be completed in as little as one mediation session | Varies depending on the schedules of both parties but usually takes four to six sessions over several months |
Expense | Each party hires lawyers for the entire process, which can be lengthy and extremely expensive | Very cost-effective, the parties split a set mediator fee | Each party pays for a lawyer but saves money by reaching an agreement faster than litigation |
Attitude | Often contentious, with each party fighting for their self-interests | Amicable and collaborative, with parties working together to find solutions | Non-adversarial discussions structured by attorneys to limit personal hostilities |
If you are struggling to decide the best course of action for your divorce case, please schedule a consultation at Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division. David Cook, John Clark, and our team of divorce lawyers can explain your options in detail and answer all of your legal questions. Furthermore, we are here to listen while you explain your unique needs and goals. Together we can develop a plan to reach the best possible outcome in your case.
There Are Several Steps in a Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative law is a unique way to handle a divorce proceeding. While each party is represented by their own attorney, the goal is to work through issues in a mutually beneficial manner. Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division in Arlington, TX, can assist you step-by-step throughout the entire process.
In Texas, many judges require family law cases to go to mediation first. The result is many cases settling without ever having to go to court.
Specialists Help Along the Way
The collaborative process has helped many of our clients in the Southlake, Mansfield, and Arlington, TX, areas maintain more control over the final decisions in their divorce cases. Our lawyers may invite the following specialists to help guide the process of collaborative divorce:
Mental Health Professional
A mental health professional accompanies our attorneys during this process to keep the process focused and on track to a healthy solution.
Financial Specialist
If there are significant assets, we'll have a financial professional sit in on the negotiations along with our collaborative lawyers.

More Benefits of Collaborative Divorce
Along with fostering good communication and positive resolutions, a collaborative divorce with the help of our Arlington, TX, firm provides a number of valuable benefits.
Lower Costs
As a collaborative team, you and your attorney do not have to spend time in court arguing over family law issues. The collaborative divorce system is not subject to the court’s docket. This means the time it takes to finalize your divorce can be significantly shorter when you opt for a collaborative divorce in Texas.
Better Control
Because the parties know what they want going into the process, each side and their collaborative lawyers take an active role in negotiating. This allows couples who use collaborative divorce to remain more in control of the outcome than those who rely on the court. You can develop solutions that are tailored to your family's needs.
More Privacy
While litigation takes place in a public courtroom, collaborative negations are held in private. This encourages honest discussion and avoids feelings of shame and judgment. When friends and family members are left out of the process, your marital disputes remain between you and your ex. Attorneys are also sworn to strict confidentiality with clients.
Client Testimonial
"Donna successfully helped me get what I wanted out of my case. She charged a reasonable fee for her services and never once wasted my time. I would hire The Family Law Firm again in a heartbeat should I ever need her services again."
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What if Collaboration Does Not Succeed?
Every couple's situation is unique. While collaborative law and divorce mediation can work for many people, there is always a chance that an agreement can't be reached.
Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division does not recommend these alternative processes unless we have confidence in a successful outcome. David Cook, John Clark, and our team of divorce lawyers can help you strategize your next steps in the event your out-of-court negotiations fail.
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You can depend on Harris Cook Law - Family Law Division to carefully review the facts of your case. We can help determine if collaborative law is the best approach, or if traditional litigation would result in a better outcome.
The value of having a legal advocate in either scenario cannot be overstated. Let David Cook and John Clark help you navigate this process in a way that achieves timely resolution and helps you enter a prosperous new chapter in your life. Our team can guide you through every step of the collaborative divorce process with your immediate and long-term goals in mind.
Contact our Arlington, TX, family law practice today to learn more. You can request a consultation, or give us a call at:
(817) 572-9900

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